Why Do Certain People Go Through Really F*cked Up Sh*t in Life?

I think people go through more difficult times compared to others because—

  1. It means their worst days are behind them and life will generally be uphill from there.

    OR

  2. It means they will be faced with tougher challenges than others because they have been gifted with a grit and resilience from going through the hardships in the earlier and more formative years of their life. They’re made of something different. They take on harder challenges.

I don’t know.

They lived a hard life so they could live an easier one later.

They lived a hard life because they were built for enduring hard times.